It’s been a long road — longer than I ever expected — but we’re finally turning a corner. In this update, I share the honest truth about what’s happened behind the scenes, the big reset we’ve just made, and why I’m more hopeful than ever that the Big Spoon Pillow will soon be in your hands.
Many of you have been following this journey for years. Some of you even know me personally — which makes it all the more important that I’m transparent about where we are and why this process has taken so long.
Since my last update in July, I made the difficult decision to permanently close the door on my previous manufacturing partner. After months of back-and-forth, no molds or fabrics could be recovered. This complete loss has led to an arbitration process — meaning we had to start completely fresh. It’s been frustrating, costly, and, honestly, disheartening at times.
In my search for a new manufacturer, I even connected with a factory that works with some major household-name brands. But their price tag — $45,000 USD for a single mold — was simply unattainable at this stage. Another tough moment
But here’s where things get hopeful. This reset has turned out to be a blessing in disguise. I’m now working with a new partner, Foam Spirit, who has been professional, responsive, and excited to bring the Big Spoon Pillow to life. They are preparing a detailed quote and an $800 production mold to create a brand-new sample. Once that sample is approved, we can finally move into full production.
A Bigger Picture Vision
It’s late on a Saturday night as I write this. My house is quiet. I just put my kids to bed, spent a rare quiet moment cuddling with my wife, and then stepped out to my car to jump on messages with a factory rep in China.
As Kate lay with her head on my chest in the dark earlier tonight, my head was crooked sideways, my shoulder starting to go numb — and I realized just how much I needed a Big Spoon Pillow in that moment. We had a laugh together as she drifted off Most of my samples have been sent across the globe in the pursuit of “getting it made,” and tonight I wished I had one right there with us.
This product is about more than fulfilling preorders. I want the Big Spoon Pillow to become a household name — the go-to choice for couples, binge-watchers, and solo snugglers everywhere. To make that happen, I’m exploring licensing partnerships with major bedding brands and even streaming companies to help scale faster and get this pillow into as many homes as possible.
Your Voice Matters
You’ve been on this journey with me — some of you for years — and your belief in this product has kept it alive.
Thank you to those that have personally called me through this process.
I’d love to collect a few short testimonials about how you found us, why you ordered, what problem you hope it solves, or what excites you most about it. Your words could inspire future customers, attract new partners, and even accelerate production. Just hit “reply” to the email update and share your thoughts — it would mean the world to me.
My Commitment to You
• I will always be honest about where things stand.
• Refunds remain available if you can’t wait any longer.
• I am committed to making this product real — not just for me, but for you.
Thank you again for your patience and your faith. This road has been long, but as the saying goes:
“If it’s not a happy ending, it’s not the end.”
Sincerely,
Brodie Wilkinson
Inventor & Founder, Big Spoon Pillow